Why You Should Never Date a Filmmaker

Loren Kantor
Picture Palace
Published in
5 min readMay 6, 2024

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Film production wreaks havoc on personal relationships.

I spent my twenties working on movies. I grew accustomed to the long hours, high stress, strange call times and constant traveling. Most film shoots last 2–3 months. You spend days and nights with the same ragged faces, everyone teetering from hangovers and lack of sleep. Film crews develop an intense intimacy. This leads to affairs, infighting, jealousies and petty squabbles. When a film shoot ends, people go their…

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Loren Kantor
Picture Palace

Loren is a writer and woodcut artist based in Los Angeles. He teaches printmaking and creative writing to kids and adults.